Today is World Prematurity Awareness Day. 1 in 8 babies are born premature. For babies (like Taylor) who are born 3 to 6 weeks early premature birth may be a very small issue that is outgrown over 2 years. Babies like Alex and Mabry are actually called "Micro Preemies" and complications from their low birth weight could present life long challenges. The March of Dimes has taken the lead in raising awareness about this issue.
I'd like to take this opportunity to explain some things about our situation-
Every preemie is different - we appreciate the support from people who tell us they know someone with a preemie that "turned out fine" but each situation is very different and to compare a child that was born 6 to 8 weeks early to a micro preemie is unfair. We are very glad to hear that someones cousin had a neighbor who had a co-worker with a preemie that is now "doing just fine". However, that does not change the struggle for survival that Alex and Mabry are enduring and the uphill climb that they continue to face.
This was not preventable - There was absolutely nothing that we could have done differently to avoid this from happening. This was completely unrelated to Taylor being born at 34 weeks. We took every approach to avoid this and it happened anyway due to an infection that was impossible to prevent. While I do support potential mothers becoming more aware, in our case, every possible optimal action was taken.
We appreciate your support- Having a singleton baby a few weeks early is difficult (we know all about that) - but having twin micro preemies changes your entire life. We appreciate the support of everyone who has reached out to us during this time and please know that your actions have made a positive difference in our life during our deepest time of need. Thank you
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